Sep 14, - Having sex for the first time in a while can be both intimidating, and a bit confusing. but then it hits you: does your body change if you haven't had sex in a while? a virgin again physically, no matter how long you've gone without sex. not mean you've suddenly returned to your former year-old self. "Bleeding Love" is a fun song title (#TBT), but not a very fun symptom. And make sure you mention it to your gyno at your next exam, no matter . a lot of women with polyps experience spotting at random, not just after sex.